I received a note from someone who posed the question why would a woman be fascinated by the kind of thing I depict here on DA. I wrote a reply which I didn't send but instead, and by way of an answer, I post here in this journal. This is of course purely a personal viewpoint...
I think if you asked anyone, regardless of gender if they have fantasies then, assuming they were honest, very few would say they didn't. I think the truth is that most people have imaginations that are quite well developed, and that the fantasies that most of us are entertaining are ultimately sexual in nature.
Many women, maybe even a majority, though i have no evidence to prove this, would say they fantasise about being kidnapped and raped. Generally by someone who looks oddly like their favourite movie star or singer. Do men have similar if complementary fantasies, well I suspect some do, but of course I cannot speak for them. Since I before became sexually active my imagination has played a part in my life, and eventually my sex life. How often has a woman failing to get much excitement from the act in progress, resorted to her imagination to give some spice to things. Quite often I suspect.
Maybe my imagination is more active than many peoples. Maybe the fact that I find the imagined situations I depict in my work excited me when i conjured them up, and played some back mentally during sex, is relevant, who knows? I suppose that what i depict here is simply me living out my fantasies vicariously in a safe environment.
I do not ever experience anything like this in life. I would run a mile screaming if anyone ever suggested exploring the things i depict. I have tried, very rarely, mild bondage, it turned me on lots, but it also scared me and so it was never really made a part of life. After all if your going to put yourself in situation where you hand over decisions about your well being to another person, you better really, really, really trust that person.
I depict things on my pages here that exist in my imagination and for me, only in my imagination. I do not advocate any form of abuse, I do not suggest that women are in any way inferior to men or vice versa. I have clearly stated that on many occasions in my journal. If you want to live a life less vanilla than the mainstream, thats fine, its your choice. The mantra safe, sane and consensual should be your equivalent of the ten commandments if thats your choice.
Added after initial post. The person who asked the question was in no way making any adverse comment regarding the kind of content, they could see why men might find bondage appealing, but not why women might. So please dont think badly of them...